December 10, 2006
Sarcasmo
When I heard that Star Foster had passed away, I didn't believe it. Part of me still doesn't. And it's not just because she was so young and it happened so suddenly, although she was and it did. It's mostly because she was so vibrant. I've never met anyone as fiercely alive as Star. All of her friends were always amazed at the sheer number of things she was doing at any one time. Besides writing for, and editing, Phillyist (of which she was one of the founding members), she also wrote for a women's technology blog called Shiny Shiny, for her own personal blog called Sarcasmo's Corner (where she plotted world domination and warned of the coming robot-ocalypse), for her Livejournal, for a horror movie blog called Monsters at Play, for a writing blog called Bitter Quill, and for all I know for about twenty other blogs, both local and international. When she wasn't writing for a blog, she was tinkering with a novel or some random piece of short fiction. And when she wasn't writing at all, she was going to see a movie, reading a gothic novel, playing a pirate on a haunted ship, going out dancing at Sex Dwarf, going out dancing at Dracula's Ball, or starring in an indie horror film. And somehow she still found time to hang out with all her friends, and to worry that perhaps her life was too boring and uneventful.
Star loved all things creepy, and had a wonderful, wickedly dark sense of humor. While other people look forward to Thanksgiving or Christmas, Halloween was always her favorite holiday. When she's laid to rest, I hope it's in the creepiest cemetary available, and she can haunt it to her heart's content.
Star Foster was easily one of the kindest, coolest, smartest, funniest, most courageous, most talented, most giving, most wonderful, and just all around best people I've ever known. She always encouraged me to try things she knew I could do, and I thank her for that. She also always gently chided me when I said or did something stupid, and I thank her for that, too. If the world were at all fair, she'd be ruling it now from inside her dual lairs (one in her beloved London, one in Philly), and we'd all be working for her robot slaves. But, as we all know, the world is not fair, and we have to say good-bye to her. So, good-bye, Star. You were one of the good ones. I'll miss you more than I can ever say.
Image Credit: Sarcasmo's Corner









Hey, folks. I wrote a piece here. I don't really know what else to do at this point, and I'm a bit shell-shocked.
Hey everyone,
It's three in the morning and I just cannot sleep. Last night Star and I were together laying in bed. I was forcing her to watch the director's cut of Miami Vice and we were snacking on cookies. And tonight she's gone. And I don't know what to do without her. So I'm just going to write for a minute, like I've been doing all over the damned internets. She'd like that.
Star loved all of you. She adored writing and was commited to bringing all of you guys the fun, pithy posts that you all had grown to love. I got to accompany her on interviews and shows and such and she lit up a little bit every time she got to do soemthing relating to Phillyist, or just some writing in general.
I don't really know what to say from here. I want to say more but I'm getting blubbery. So let her writing talk. Go to her websites. Check out sarcasmoscorner.com, or read some of her backlog here at Phillyist. Get to know her.
I love you, Star.
-michael
I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost a dear friend of 35 around this time last year. It's a terrible thing to lose someone so young and so senselessly.
I can only try to imagine what all of you, who were truly close to her, must be going through. Be kind to yourselves. It's a boring cliche to say that it takes a lot of time--but that's why it's a boring cliche. God bless.
Emmett: Yeah, I just feel really confused right now.
Michael: Thanks for that. Again, I'm so sorry.
Ashley: Thanks very much.